gynophagiafan asked: when did you first realize that attractive women are objects?
Never, as they are not objects. I am frankly appalled, but sadly not surprised, that people so often confuse BDSM and misogyny.
A misogynist is frankly almost always either petty little loser who never was able to get a woman interested in himself and puts all the blame on the women instead of having a long, good look at himself (hint: develop a personality, take care of some basic hygiene and don’t treat any woman you meet like a piece of shit and you MIGHT get lucky) and/or are hopelessly deluded and ignorant people.
To state it very clearly: I have the deepest respect for women, I treat them courteously and would never view them as anything but my equals. What happens in a D/s situation among CONSENTING individuals is something else. It requires Equality and Respect before one can THEN treat a woman like a servant, a slave, a pet or a piece of fuckmeat. WITH HER CONSENT AND PERMISSION. Sorry for the caps, but that is the key here.
Have a nice one, and please re-evaluate your way of thinking if you see it differently, because that is a very bad and ultimately lonely corner you occupy.